This is the current state of the room, loads better than before. I finally got rid of the pile of clothes that I no longer want, I put them in an Oxfam bank at Sainsbury's as they either sell on or recycle them if not in good condition,
I've broken down a couple of big boxes and sorted out the wrapping paper/bags/accessories and put them all away in a cupboard. I also sorted out the pile of paper/magazines into piles, I've just got to go through them see if I want to keep them, or parts of them for info or recipes or something.
The next thing I'm going to do I think it put the pile of Ben's clothes in a plastic box to keep, for any future children. And sort out the top of the dressing table.